SEXY HALLOWEEN VIBES | SEX CULTURE - Sexologist Sheni Martínez | @shenimartinezpr / @cannasexology

Halloween is just around the corner, and people of all ages are getting ready for a night of trick-or-treating and the chance to dress up and role-play, even if just for one night. If you're already getting into character, why not extend the fun to the bedroom? This time of year offers the perfect opportunity to explore role-playing in and out of the bedroom.

Here are some suggestions:

1. Decide in advance how far you're willing to go with your role-playing and set clear boundaries. It might seem strange to discuss these boundaries beforehand, but it can be fun (even setting rules can be a form of foreplay) and will make the experience more enjoyable.

2. Let your imagination run wild. Get creative when choosing or designing your Halloween costume or role-playing fantasies. Dr. Justin Lehmiller, in his 2018 research, found that 97% of participants had sexual fantasies. The most common fantasies involved novelty and adventure, including new sexual activities. The possibilities for role-playing are endless. Be creative and use erotic stories, movie scenes, dreams, or other sources of inspiration.

3. Wear a costume that's comfortable enough to wear all night. You don't want to go home to change before you feel comfortable enough for the act. Nor do you want it to rip at the worst possible moment.

4. Stay in character to set the tone and develop greater comfort with your role. This is a fun way to bring out the flirting and keep the other person interested by anticipating what might come next.

5. Your role-playing scenario will likely involve altering how you normally communicate your needs. You might use an accent, speak a different language, change your volume or tone, adjust your body language, and/or use sexy words and phrases that aren't part of your regular repertoire.

6. If you feel self-conscious, dim the lights or turn up the music. Changes in sensory perception can help distract you. You can wait until you're a little aroused to get into character, as inhibitions decrease with sexual excitement.

7. Avoid excess. Halloween offers the perfect occasion to enjoy various foods, drinks, and cannabis. Moderation is your best friend. Role-playing can be a fun activity year-round.

Halloween offers the perfect opportunity to let your imagination run wild. So, Happy Sexy Halloween Vibes!

Sexologist Sheni Martínez | @shenimartinezpr / @cannasexology